If anyone else wants to add to this, let me know!
Crafty communities:This is the best overall forum that I have found. It's a great place to learn, share, and get ideas.
CraftsterBlogs:Here's a list of blogs that *I* really enjoy. I tend to gravitate towards more eccentric and hip flavors of bloggers, so if that's for you check out my list. I think you'll enjoy it.
schmooYarn HarlotQueer JoeHalf-AssedChic KnitsShopping:I like online stores with great sales and a lot of variety. Here's who I tend to buy from most:
elannKnitpicks (my fav)
HerrschnersFree Patterns:This is the best site for free decent patterns. New ones are added constantly.
Pattern CentralBig Company Websites: Here's a list of the larger companies in the biz. I sign up with them to get lots of flyers and freebies.
LionbrandBernatPatonsPlymouthCascadeNoroTwisted SistersThis is just a small amount of what I have bookmarked, but it's a great start. If you're curious about the craft I suggest giving these places a once-over.
Thanks!